“Divorce A Never Ending Debate” With Special Reference to The City of Chennai

The most common reasons people give for their divorce are lack of commitment, too much arguing, infidelity, marrying too young, unrealistic expectations, lack of equality in the relationship, lack of preparation for marriage, and abuse. Some of these problems can be fixed and divorce prevented. It might sound simple, but it's not easy for a husband and wife to decide to end a marriage. Often they spend a long time trying to solve problems before deciding to divorce. But sometimes they just can't fix the problems and decide that a divorce is the best solution. Change is a natural part of life, but when it happens to your family, it is sometimes really hard to deal with. Sometimes both parents want to divorce, and sometimes one want to and the other one doesn't. Usually, both parents are disappointed that their marriage can't last, even if one wants a divorce — and to live apart — more than the other. Sometimes it hurts kids ’feelings when one parent wants to leave the house where they live. It is hard not to take it personally. It's important to remember that divorce happens between the husband and wife, and even though it affects the whole family, it doesn't mean that a parent who leaves the house doesn't care about the kids. The present world is too fast and has grown in leaps in bounds following the un healthy habits cultivating problems and disgusting examples for future heroes of the Nation. This paper throws light on reasons for divorce in detail considering the respondents from the city of Chennai. The samples are patients who come to attend counselling for a better life and who is keen to get rid of past relationships.